Tuesday, May 28, 2013

Do you feel frustrated with women?

Hey there,

I have a question for you that could change your life:

Do you feel frustrated with women?

Or to go deeper:

Do you wonder why the girls you like don't seem to like you?

Do you feel hopeless when it comes to finding “the one” for you?

Do you find yourself feeling angry with women and not knowing why?

Do you get upset when you encounter rejection after rejection from
women?

Have you given up when it comes to women, dating, sex and
relationships?

Ok, that's enough... I know these can be painful questions. So I
want to let you in on a secret that enlightened people have known
for centuries which will help you dissolve your frustration with
women:

Women are a mirror to a man's subconscious.

(In fact, everyone and everything in the world is a mirror to your
subconscious. But since we're talking about women here, let's just
focus on them for the time being.)

Part of the problem we have in dealing with the subconscious is
that's where our emotions arise, and in our society most guys have
never learned the key skill of emotional mastery. So let's talk
about emotions for a moment.

Frustration is a mixture of anger and sadness. It's a normal
response to not getting our needs met. If you're experiencing
frustration with women, it means that some emotion in your
subconscious is stopping you getting your needs met around women.

If you direct your frustration with women outwards, you may act
aggressively and end up hurting them which will lead to feelings of
guilt. If you direct your frustration inwards, you may end up
depressed and wondering why women avoid you. Either way, you end up
with low self-esteem and stuck in a vicious cycle.

Underneath the frustration will be a feeling of powerlessness. We
live in a culture that teaches us to avoid unpleasant feelings, and
there are lots of ways to avoid feeling powerless: we can blame
women, we can take drugs and alcohol, we can deny the problem
exists, we can put on an act of bravado, we can act like a jerk or
we can become overly self-reliant.

Of course none of these work in the long run.

Ultimately, we need to face the painful underlying issues behind it.

Ironically, the first step to overcoming frustration is to accept
that we are powerless. If you've done any Twelve-Step work, you'll
recognise this as Step 1. It may seem a paradox, but once we admit
that we are powerless, we're able to reach out to others for the
help that we need to step into our own power.

The truth is that you simply can't become a powerful man on your
own. You need help from other men.

It took me a long time to learn to admit to myself that I was
powerless. One of the ways it showed up in my life was denying that
I needed help, support and guidance from other men who had once been
where I was.

I would see products like the Confident Man Program which promised
me freedom from the frustration that I felt around women; but I
wouldn't buy them. I preferred to “work it out myself” thinking that
self-reliance would make me more confident than following someone
else's advice.

Avoiding taking action to get this advice was just another way that
my underlying sense of powerlessness kept me frustrated; even though
the answers I needed were available right in front of me. This meant
learning everything from scratch all the time. It took forever.

Eventually I worked out that I could end my suffering much sooner by
getting advice from good mentors, including books and programs like
Confident Man.

Once we recognise our true nature and get in touch with our inner
power, we no longer feel powerless. Instead, we have feelings of
inner confidence. Frustration with women then dissolves.

The Confident Man Program will put you in touch with your power as a
man. If you'd like to end the frustration that you feel towards
women and learn how to overcome your feelings of powerlessness
around them, click here to get the Confident Man Program

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