Getting girls to feel an attraction for you - that
isn’t simply based on your looks, the contents of your wallet or the
car you’ve got parked outside - can be really tricky.
After all, how are men supposed to know what each girl’s looking for without asking?
If you DID ask, you know your chances would
be small, after all, no girl wants a guy approaching her with needy
questions - she wants a confident man who somehow seems to know what
she’s after and can give it to her.
So how do you do it?
How do you become the man that effortlessly
exudes confidence, dominance and presence, without turning into an
arrogant poser or desperate wannabe?
The answer lies in psychology. It’s at the
heart of all persuasive social situations, and absolutely central to
the success of any guy’s attempts at attracting and seducing women.
Quite simply, by learning the CORRECT psychological rules, principles
and tactics, any guy can play and WIN at the game of seduction. For
example, let’s look at one such psychological technique, that used
correctly boosts any guy’s chance of getting a girl’s number or hooking
up with her at a later date by at least 50%, each and every time he
uses it. It’s called option limitation and works on the following
principle of human nature:
When someone’s presented with only a
single choice, often their natural reaction will be to rebel against it
and go their own way. However, when given 2 or 3 options, the opposite
occurs: they feel their intellectual freedom has been respected and
they make their choice from the variety of options they’ve been
presented with.
You can use this universal psychological
principle when picking-up or seducing a woman by carefully constructing
how you pose important questions or phrases while talking to her.
For example, most men think saying: “Can I
have your number?” is an okay way to finish a conversation that’s gone
well with a girl. But a much more powerful and effective way of saying
the same thing would be to use option limitation. Something like: “It’s
been nice to meet you. Shall we swap numbers or maybe grab a bite to
eat and a drink tomorrow?” What you’re doing is presenting the girl
with a choice between good and better – whichever she says yes to, you
win. If you only give her one option, as in the first example, she’s
likely to create her own alternative, which means there’s a chance she
won’t say yes to the option you gave her. When she subconsciously
recognises that she’s been given a choice between multiple outcomes,
she feels her intellectual freedom has been respected and she chooses
one of them.
So, always use option limitation to give
the impression there’s a variety of options available to the girl –
even though each one is fine as far as you’re concerned. And to
strengthen the effect of option limitation, always try to separate the
choices you give the girl with the word “or.” When people hear “or”
they automatically recognise that they need to make a choice, and
therefore do just that.
Option limitation is just one example of
how, whether they know it or not, men who are successful with women
CREATE that success for themselves – not through luck or good fortune.
Tiffany Taylor
is the female author of GuyGetsGirl, a special guide for men that
reveals all the dirty tricks women play on guys each and every day.
And, most importantly, how men can turn the tables on women by using special psychological techniques to attract and seduce them, anywhere, anytime…effortlessly.
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